How to Ask a Girl to Be Your Girlfriend by Text 2021

Asking out a girl you like or someone you’ve been crushing on face to face is not an easy adventure, sometimes it is better to let her know how you’re feeling about her through text messages instead of the tedious face-to-face talk! Expressing your love to the girl of your dreams could be difficult especially if you don’t have the right ideas on how to ask her out.

Ever wonder how to use a text message to actually ask a girl out? Do you know the perfect way this can be done in order to get a positive response? This article will tell you the best way of asking a girl out over text without being turned down by her. If you have a girl you are crushing on and would like to take things to the next level, then read this article and get all the tips you will ever need to accomplish your mission.
While sending your text messages, avoid using sexy words, avoid being too romantic in your text, avoid calling her pet names like “My sweetheart, My Honey, My Sugar, My Sunshine, etc”. This may make her think that you’re just trying to seduce her and she may turn you down totally. It is preferable that you address her by her real name in your first text, then maybe if things work out between the both of you, you can now start calling her pet names. Below are some text messages you can send to a girl to ask her out.

How to Ask a Girl to Be Your Girlfriend


1. Hi Clara, I’ve been thinking about you ever since I met you. I can’t take my mind off you, will you be my girlfriend, please?
2. Hello Juliet, I guess you have no idea how much you mean to me, a day without seeing you is like a day spent in hell, please will you be my girlfriend?
3. As long as the stars twinkle in the sky, As long as Angels are there up high, Till the ocean run dry and till the day I die. I will love you, please be mine!
4. I really appreciate all you’ve done for me, I really appreciate all the efforts you’ve shown to make me happy, I want you to be mine.
5. Though I have lots of things to say, my words are hiding from me and I cannot express them. A simple thing I want to say is I love you today and always, please date me!
6. You’re the bright sunshine in my cloudy life. Can you stay with me forever?
7. Just like the wind that blows off the grasses, that’s how your presence in my life has blown up my mind, I can’t wait to have you all for myself, be mine!
8. You’re the reason I don’t wanna take my siesta because each time I close my eyes, all I see is you, please be my girlfriend!
9. I don’t need much, all I want is someone who will be by my side each time I’m lonely, and I see that person in you. Please be my girlfriend.
10. You deserve the very best, someone who will back you up without limits, let you grow without borders, and love you without end. Will you let me be the one?
11. When I look into your eyes, I can see a reflection of the two of us and the life I hope we’ll share together. I know you’re the only one I want to share the rest of my life with.
12. I promise to love you a little bit more every day. Can I be your better boyfriend?
13. All I wanted was someone to care for me, all I wanted was someone who would be there for me, all I wanted was someone like you, will you be mine?
14. I believe that if we’re lucky enough to have found each other in the first place, we’re worth betting on for life. Will you take that gamble with me?
15. Dear Esther, ever wonder why I couldn’t do anything for myself the other you came visiting my sister? Twas because I was so addicted to you, please will you be my girlfriend?
16. People do say that love makes someone special, but for me, it is you. People do say that light can drive out the dark, but as for me, it is your smile. I want to have you for myself, Mary!
17. I was lonely before you came in and made me a happier person. I can’t stop thinking about you, please will you be my girlfriend?
18. I was told if you love someone, go after them and let them know your feelings. As you’re reading this text, know that I love you. I need you in my life.
19. Meeting you had been the most beautiful thing that has ever happened to me, I can’t hide my feelings any longer, please will you be my girlfriend?
20. Do you realize that I feel so happy each time I spend a little of my time with you? It’d never been this way before. You’re so adorable, please will you be my girlfriend?

When Is the Right Time to Ask a Girl to Be Your Girlfriend?

This is one of the most frequently asked questions. Well, when it comes to dating or relationships, individual preference matters a lot. By this, I mean that what may work for you may not work for the next person. So it is always advisable to judge things based on what we see around us. When it comes to asking a girl out over text messages, you have to be very careful not to either under text or over text her. Under texting a girl can make her feel like you’re not her type of man, you don’t value her or you’re not serious, while on the other hand, over texting her can make her think that you’re desperate or so weak and she may easily turn you down. You know girls are so sensitive to everything that happens around them.
I remembered, before meeting my girlfriend, she had been giving me all the green lights I could ever need from a girl, most times she will call and we would talk for some minutes or even hours, she will text, check on me, in fact, she did everything a girlfriend would have done, but then we were just ordinary friends. That was enough greenlighted for me to know that Anita likes me. So one day I decided to take the bull by the horn, I grabbed my phone and text her a proposal message; “Hello Anita, I feel so incomplete each time you say goodnight, please I need you by my side every time, will you be my girlfriend?” After sending the text, I received a very astonishing response from her, her text reads; “Are you sure of what you’re saying, or is it just one of your regular jokes?” I was surprised and also blamed myself because I’m a good joker, but this time I was very serious. So I replied to her that I’m serious this time. That was how our relationship started and we are still together today.
However, before texting a girl, be sure that you have seen a little indication that she likes you. It may be from the way she likes spending time with you, the way she talks and addresses you, the way she always smiles when seeing you, the way she always shies out when talking to you, etc. If you have seen these signs, then it is a good indication that asking her out through a text message will yield a positive result.

When Do You Ask a Girl to Be Your Girlfriend?


Asking a girl to be your girlfriend is something you have to be very careful with. Before you ask a girl out, there are some signs or green lights you have to watch out for in that girl. There are some questions you have to ask yourself before embarking on that journey, the following questions will help you realize if it is the right time to ask a girl out. If you can answer at least seven (7) Yes’s to these questions below, then you are at the right path.
1. Does the girl likes spending time with you?
2. Does she likes talking to you most frequently?
3. Does she calls you at least once a day just to say “Hi, how are you, Jones”?
4. Does she always chat with you most regularly?
5. Does she always acts shy when she’s talking to you?
6. Does she always feel timid or shy about addressing you with your real name?
7. Does she always do things that will make you happy?
8. Does she always avoid doing things that will upset you?
9. Does she always tries not to say anything that will make you angry?
10. Does she always likes talking about her loneliness when she’s with you?
When Do You Ask a Girl to Be Your Girlfriend?
If you have answered at least 7 Ye’s to the above questions, then there’s a possibility that proposing to her through a text message could work.
Answering Yes’s to at least seven (7) of the above questions shows that there are enough green lights from her. It’s now time to grab your phone and send her any of the proposal text above. Be sure to receive a positive reply. However, if she doesn’t reply after two or three texts, then don’t bother anymore, just zero your mind from her and move on.
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